Book of Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah) – contd.
Narrated Abu Hurairah:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “If a man Invites his wife to sleep with him and she refuses to come to him, then the angels send their curses on her till morning.”
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي عَدِيٍّ، عَنْ شُعْبَةَ، عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ، عَنْ أَبِي حَازِمٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ “ إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَأَبَتْ أَنْ تَجِيءَ لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلاَئِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ ”.
Sahih al-Bukhari 5193
NOTES 📝
1. Imam al-Bukhari collected this hadith under the chapter titled ‘ If a woman deserts her husband’s bed. Marriage is a lawful relationship between spouses, and Islamic teachings have clarified the rights and responsibilities of each party. This hadith highlights the significance of a husband’s right over his wife and prohibits a wife from disobeying her husband. It also serves as evidence of the acceptance of angels’ supplications, as the Prophet ﷺ warned about their consequences.
2. Shaykh Muhammad ibn Salih Al-Uthaymeen explains in his commentary of this hadith that a wife must respond to her husband’s call to intimacy unless she has a valid excuse, such as illness or any other legitimate hindrance(s) recognized in the Shari’ah. If she refuses without cause, the angels curse her until morning, and according t9 another narration, Allah remains displeased until her husband is satisfied. This highlights the gravity of neglecting marital obligations, as Allah’s anger is even more severe than a curse. However, this applies only if the husband fulfills his marital responsibilities; if he neglects her rights (such as providing her clothing and expenses in honorable way and according to his capacity, not abandon her except within the home, not strike her face, not use offensive words, etc.), she may withhold his in return, based on Qu’ran principles of fairness (see Surah Al-Baqarah ayah 194, Surah an-Nahl ayah 126). – Sharh Riyadh as-Saliheen, Ibn Salih Al-Uthaymeen
3. The Shaykh also stresses that kindness in marriage is mutual. Just as a wife is expected to fulfill her husband’s needs, the husband should also be considerate of his wife’s emotional and physical needs when she desires intimacy, as commanded in the Qur’an: “And live with them in kindness.” Sharh Riyadh as-Saliheen, Ibn Salih Al-Uthaymeen
O Allah! Our Lord! Bestow on us from our wives and our offspring those who will be the comfort of our eyes and make us Imams (leaders) for the Muttaqoon (pious). Our Lord, grant us from Yourself mercy and prepare for us from our affair right guidance … Ãmeen
Assalamu Alaikum Warahamatullah.
ITS FRIDAY:
Every day holds a new hope, a new blessings and a beginning.
It’s a perfect day because, it’s a gift from ALLAHU (SWT).
May your day be filled with “Peace, Hope And Love”.
Aameen, Yaa Hayyuh Yaa Qayyum.
Best Wishes Of The Day And Jumu’at Kareem.
6th Shawwal, 1446 (AH).
4th April, 2025.
GOOD MORNING!
A few powerful and relevant Qur’anic verses and Hadiths perfect for Jumu’ah (Friday):
QUR’ANIC VERSE:
Surah Al-Jumu’ah (62:9):
> “O you who have believed, when [the adhan] is called for the prayer on the day of Jumu’ah [Friday], then proceed to the remembrance of Allah and leave trade. That is better for you, if you only knew.”
This verse highlights the sacredness and priority of Jumu’ah prayer over worldly engagements.
ANOTHER POWERFUL VERSE:
Surah Al-Kahf (18:110):
> “So whoever hopes for the meeting with his Lord—let him do righteous work and not associate in the worship of his Lord anyone.”
It is highly recommended to recite Surah Al-Kahf on Fridays, as it brings light and protection for the week ahead.
HADITHS:
1. Abu Huraira (RA) narrated that the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:
> “The best day the sun rises over is Friday. On it, Adam was created, on it he was made to enter Paradise, on it he was expelled from it. And the Hour will not be established except on Friday.”
(Sahih Muslim)
2. The Prophet (SAW) said:
> “Whoever recites Surah Al-Kahf on Friday, a light will shine for him between this Friday and the next.”
(Al-Hakim, Al-Bayhaqi)
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A beautiful Jumu’ah message and dua you can share:
Jumu’ah Mubarak!
May this blessed day bring peace to your heart, light to your path, and blessings to your home. May Allah (SWT) accept your prayers, forgive your sins, and elevate your status in both worlds.
Dua for Jumu’ah:
> “Allahumma inni as’aluka min khayri maa sa’alaka minhu nabiyyuka Muhammad (sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam), wa a’oodhu bika min sharri masta’aadhaka minhu nabiyyuka Muhammad (sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam), wa antal musta’aan wa ‘alaykal balaagh, wa la hawla wa la quwwata illa billah.”
“O Allah, I ask You for the good which Your Prophet Muhammad (SAW) asked of You, and I seek refuge with You from the evil from which Your Prophet Muhammad (SAW) sought refuge. You are the One Whose help is to be sought, and it is for You to deliver the Message. There is no power and no strength except with Allah.”
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